• What are your long-term goals and aspirations? Are you more of a “let’s see where life takes us” kind of guy or do you have a clear vision for the future that involves world domination (or at least owning a cute little cottage by the beach)?
• How do you handle conflict in a relationship? Do you turn into an angry Hulk smashing everything around, or can you keep calm like a Zen master and work things out with open communication?
• Are you open to compromise and communication when it comes to resolving issues? Because let’s face it, relationships involve give-and-take, so if you’re as stubborn as a mule who refuses to budge, we might need some negotiation skills.
• What is your love language, and how do you express affection? Are you all about showering someone with gifts or would rather write them heartfelt poetry while serenading under the moonlight?
• Do you have any deal-breakers or non-negotiables in a relationship? We don’t want any surprises down the road like finding out that my obsession with cats conflicts with your severe cat allergies!
• How important is physical intimacy to you in a romantic partnership? Let’s make sure our expectations align because I’m not looking for someone whose idea of romance is just binge-watching Netflix on separate couches.
• Can you see yourself being supportive of my personal and professional endeavors? It’d be great if we could cheer each other on like enthusiastic cheerleaders without feeling threatened by each other’s success.
• What are your views on marriage and starting a family? Should we start planning our dream wedding now or are we keeping things casual until further notice?
• Have past relationships significantly impacted your perspective on dating? Did they leave emotional scars deeper than Harry Potter’s lightning-shaped scar?
•Are there any specific values or beliefs that are essential for compatibility with potential partners? Like whether pineapple belongs on pizza – this could be a make-or-break kind of question!
• How do you handle stress and manage your emotions in challenging situations? Are you the type to scream into pillows or are you more likely to meditate under a waterfall like some sort of enlightened guru?
• Are you comfortable with open and honest communication, even when it involves difficult topics? Because let’s face it, relationships aren’t all rainbows and unicorns; sometimes we need to have those tough conversations about who left the toilet seat up.
• What are your hobbies and interests outside of work or school? Do you enjoy extreme sports that involve jumping off cliffs or would rather spend weekends binge-watching cheesy romantic comedies while devouring buckets of popcorn?
• Do you have a close circle of friends, and how important is maintaining those relationships to you? I mean, if they’re anything like Monica’s gang from Friends, count me in for game nights and coffee shop hangouts!
•Are there any past traumas or experiences that may affect your ability to fully invest in a new relationship? We don’t want any emotional baggage weighing us down unless it’s Louis Vuitton luggage filled with fabulousness.
• How do you prioritize quality time together amidst other commitments like work, family, or personal goals? Can we find that sweet spot between being busy bees conquering the world but still making time for cuddles on lazy Sundays?