Nature, life adventures and preferences separate people into groups. There are the dominating alphas and then the betas and the other less dominating personality types. In any wolf pack, there is an alpha, that wolf that leads all members of the pack has to fight with other members of the pack to keep their position and ward off threats from other packs. Although humans do not move in packs, there are alpha males who are known to be naturally dominating in almost every area of their life.
Since alpha males are known to dominate every aspect of their lives naturally, one may wonder how they get to relate to and treat their girlfriends – we hope to answer that question and give you a sneak peek into what makes them different.
The general way alpha males treat their girlfriends is different from what is common, as expected. When a typical guy falls in love, they tend to get overly used to all the perks of the relationship like the love and support girlfriends show their boyfriends. The alpha male system of dating involves a perfect mix of paying the right attention to their girlfriends and treating them well but not overly getting attached to the perks of the relationships. An alpha male is generally secure, and this high level of self-confidence, self-esteem and security is projected in all aspects of the relationship.
They give their girlfriends attention
An alpha male strategically goes into a relationship and thus shows commitment from the moment the relationship is a go. He doesn’t lack choices and thus tend to choose who they want to be with rather than who is available. Alpha males also understand how relationships work; they understand the importance of spending quality time with their girlfriends and strategically planning to incorporate doing so into their lives. However, this high level of attention is only given when it is mutual and reciprocated.
They give their girlfriends space
Alpha males understand the importance of giving people necessary space which is founded on the fact that they have no insecurity issues. They understand when his girlfriend has to be out on her own because of work or other business for a while and may not be able to keep up normal everyday conversations for that period.
The confidence comes from the fact that alpha males, more often than not, trust their girlfriends and understand that other aspects of their lives may need their attention.
They shower their girlfriends with gifts and respect them
When an alpha male is committed to a relationship, they are usually completely committed. Thus, they are not afraid of showing how much they love her, and this involves showering her with gifts. He also respects his girlfriend. This is because, for most of his values, he has placed a premium on mutual respect and strives towards it.
It should be noted that while an alpha male respects and loves his girlfriend wholeheartedly, this commitment comes from being sure of their girlfriend’s commitment. He would know he is not appreciated and wanted and stay away from those situations.